One theme of the piece is that failures are often made worse by our tendency to "chase losses" - meaning to stick with a failing proposition for too long and therefore lose more than was necessary. This concept is covered nicely in Tim Harford's book "Adapt: Why Success Always Starts with Failure." Here are a few observations from Ryssdahl and Larson on chasing losses:
But even when the future looked grim, [boutique owner Michelle] Tyree hung on. In fact, she dug in. She bought more inventory for the racks and threw celebrity-fueled parties at the store to generate buzz.
"Your gut says this could be a problem, but your head overrides it because you have just put in this huge investment," she said. "You are hanging on to not just the dream, but you are hanging on to the sweat equity and what you put into it financially."
Human beings, by nature, don't like to turn their backs on what are called "sunk costs," said Craig Fox, who teaches decision-making at the University of California, Los Angeles. When a lot of money is put into something - the dream of a small business, stocks or even an education - and it can't be recovered or is otherwise "sunk," few of us can just walk away....
Back in the '90s, when [Michael Dearing] was fresh out of Harvard Business School, he, too, sank a lot of money into his dream of owning his own store.
The Industrial Shoe Warehouse had five outlets in Los Angeles that sold work boots (think back to the Dr. Martens craze). "It had a vibe of, like, Urban Outfitters - concrete floor, high beam ceilings, all the stock was on the floor," said Mr. Dearing. "We had a really good business for awhile."
But, in the end, he said, "It was what you would call a splat-against-the-wall failure."
Mr. Dearing said the economics of running a shoe store were tougher than expected. Plus, the business grew too fast. Then Mr. Dearing's business partner wanted out.
He struggled to keep the business afloat because, he said, it felt dishonorable to let it go. "I personalized the outcome to a degree that it was unhealthy," he said. "I thought failure was total and permanent - and success stamped me as a worthwhile business person."
I discuss a way of managing the urge to chase losses - the concept of "affordable loss" - in Chapter 5 of the Mistake Bank book. If you're going to put your heart and soul into a project, you would do well to establish and manage to an affordable loss, so that your commitment and ego don't cost you in the event of a failure.